I think I understand your point, I just don't agree with it.
To me, the scenario you describe isn't just an exercise of one fetish, it's a combination of bondage, sadism/masochism, and nonconsensual fantasy. The first two don't interest me, but don't make me lose sleep at night. The third, obviously, causes me considerable agitation. I look at it on it's own instead of mixed in with the various other things it can show up in, because otherwise those other things will just confuse the issue and make it more difficult for me to reach any actual *conclusions*.
(I also tend to be very fastidious about componentizing things because a lot of what I am interested in gets mixed in with things I don't like, or even despise.)
As for normality, isn't one of the things that makes something a fetish that only people who have it think it's normal? I certainly don't expect other people to think the stuff I'm into is normal. In some cases *I* have my doubts.
Anyway, it's not like I'm trying to *stop* anyone from doing whatever it is they do. I'm just commenting fairly randomly on stuff, and trying to figure out a bit more about myself. Which, in fact, this might be helping with. I'm beginning to think I may not be breaking the "rape fantasy" idea down into enough components...
Of course, it's also getting a bit embarrassing. ^_^;;;
-Morgan.
Drive Like A Demon (natural trait): +4 bonus to all rolls to avoid injury in a vehicular accident. -4 penalty to avoid being in a vehicular accident. This trait only takes effect when the person with it is driving/piloting the vehicle.
To me, the scenario you describe isn't just an exercise of one fetish, it's a combination of bondage, sadism/masochism, and nonconsensual fantasy. The first two don't interest me, but don't make me lose sleep at night. The third, obviously, causes me considerable agitation. I look at it on it's own instead of mixed in with the various other things it can show up in, because otherwise those other things will just confuse the issue and make it more difficult for me to reach any actual *conclusions*.
(I also tend to be very fastidious about componentizing things because a lot of what I am interested in gets mixed in with things I don't like, or even despise.)
As for normality, isn't one of the things that makes something a fetish that only people who have it think it's normal? I certainly don't expect other people to think the stuff I'm into is normal. In some cases *I* have my doubts.
Anyway, it's not like I'm trying to *stop* anyone from doing whatever it is they do. I'm just commenting fairly randomly on stuff, and trying to figure out a bit more about myself. Which, in fact, this might be helping with. I'm beginning to think I may not be breaking the "rape fantasy" idea down into enough components...
Of course, it's also getting a bit embarrassing. ^_^;;;
-Morgan.
Drive Like A Demon (natural trait): +4 bonus to all rolls to avoid injury in a vehicular accident. -4 penalty to avoid being in a vehicular accident. This trait only takes effect when the person with it is driving/piloting the vehicle.